Our dear ones

I wanted everything around me to be silent, I want to concentrate on what I am doing, but it's noisy and it disturbed my mood.

Just then I got a call from one of my dearest one.

I didn't talk properly, I was not responding the way I would generally. I am showing my bad mood.

He didn't say a word. He understood I think.

I ended the call with the same mood.

As I am alone in my room, my heart started talking. I have been developing heart qualities for a while now and I am happy to say that my heart plays a major role in my life.

You have to call back, he is your dearest one, don't be scared, heart told me.

So I called back, while I was listening to the caller tune, I was thinking how to start conversation, how to apologize.

As he picked up the phone, asked me, "What happened?"

I didn't talk properly so I called back, I told him.

He laughed and immediately started conversation.

20 mins and it all ended differently now and I am at peace. (My heart is!)

Many times we show our bad moods on dear ones, and it's very difficult to apologize after. Fortunately the best thing about our dear ones is they would understand us even before we apologize.

But do we really recognize their value in our life?

My dad sometimes says to me, "Many people realized the value and greatness of your grandfather only after he died."

This always stayed in my mind. It should not happen with me I told myself.

I have many dear ones in my life. The best family, friends, relatives, colleagues....

Dad would say, "Wherever you go, you always have a family, the perfect people, the perfect circumstances, i think you are the luckiest one."

Yes, I am very lucky, right from my childhood I was always with people who love me, who are always there for me.

Strange phenomenon is the more close a person becomes to me the more chance that I show my bad mood on him.

I am changing it now a days, with the help of my dearest 'heart'.

People, we many times take the dear ones in our life for granted and overlook their true value. It's not always easy to say a sorry, also it's better to prevent these situations than going for a cure.

I wish Gopi would face his bad mood next time with courage!