Girlz n deir Expressionzz

Yeah, this is not my area of expertise. But there is a reason I am writing this post.

All the girls in my life, from cousins to friends and colleagues. Every single one told me "Gopi you never ever understand girls"

I never understood what they meant initially and even now I am helpless.

Anyways I feel it's a blessing in disguise. But you should have both; Inability to understand girls and girls knowing that you don't understand them :)

Because you wont waste time trying to understand them and they wont give you much complexity knowing your inability. (This is coming from a lot personal experience :) )

But I should agree. I really wanna understand them. I really want to read between the lines. My inability combined with lack of patience is not making me achieve this.

Why do they use indirect pointers, symbolic language and alien expressions.

what does a girl mean...

"When she gives you a full smile or half smile or a serious look?"
"When she looks at you through corner of her eye?"
"When she scolds you, praises you or says "you look funny"(this part happens to me more often;))"

May be these indirect pointers are the one's that make everything interesting with girls. May be this is the real spicy element of all relationships. (not even 1% experience here).

But why am I writing about all this?

There is something bugging me these days.

There is this girl at office whom I am really scared of (of course I am scared of all girls :P). She sat in front of me in one of my office meetings. And suddenly, unreasonably and in a situation which doesn't demand it, she she gave an expression to me, (I dont know how to describe it and even if I describe it I wont be 10% near to it). It is something mysterious though. While I was puzzled (Shocked in fact), she gave me another similar one. This is going somewhere, I thought. Is she scolding me?? Is she asking me to shut up?? (Actually I am talking too much at that time, actually chating with people sitting on both sides of me). I wanted to know what she meant.

Bad thing, it didn't stop there yet, she gave a similar expression to me the third time!! Now I got another doubt, Is she giving those expressions to me??or to someone else? am I making it all up??

Yeah, you can understand how confused I am.

You may ask me why I haven't clarified it, then itself. I have my reasons

1. I am scared of her ;)
2. I am scared that she would act as if she knew nothing.
3. I am scared she would think I am totally unable to understand simple expressions.
4. I am scared I am making this all up :P

People, I too get scared sometimes and this is the proof :D

So this thing bugged me few days after that, I thought about it and forgot . But it's coming into mind whenever I see her.

Forgot to say, there are eye-witnesses who said it's a mysterious expression (yippeee!! I have support).

Whatever after many days I clearly understood the necessity to develop ability of decoding Girlzz and their expressionzz.

Guys out there if you don't have this ability, your life will be like mine :)

A small expression triggers a Tsunami.

BE AWARE!!